About the “CIVIC Couples” series
Did you know CIVIC Leadership Institute’s alumni include several married couples who have both gone through the program, often years apart and at different stages in life? As part of our 30th anniversary reflection and in celebration of Valentine’s Day, we’re highlighting a few of these CIVIC Couples and the unique connections they share through their individual CIVIC experiences.
Aubrey Layne (‘13) and Peggy Layne (‘17) bring two distinct perspectives to their CIVIC experience, both grounded in a deep commitment to Hampton Roads and a belief that regional collaboration matters. Though their cohorts were four years apart, both describe CIVIC as an experience that goes beyond surface-level exposure and digs deeply into the realities shaping the region.
For Aubrey, who joined CIVIC while serving on the Commonwealth Transportation Board and preparing to take on broader statewide responsibilities, the program sharpened his understanding of collaboration. CIVIC reinforced a lesson that would shape his leadership at the state level: “Regional differences matter when sculpting solutions.” He explained that while statewide initiatives are important, effective leadership requires understanding the nuances and distinct needs of each region.
That perspective came full circle a few years later for a uniquely personal intersection of their CIVIC journeys. During Peggy’s Richmond program day, Aubrey was serving as Virginia’s Secretary of Transportation, meaning her class heard directly from him as part of the experience.
Peggy valued that same depth. She often describes CIVIC as giving participants a more “in the weeds” look at Hampton Roads, moving beyond headlines and into the practical realities of how issues intersect. She found particular meaning in her class project focused on the Megaregion, which helped lay the groundwork for what is now RVA757 Connects. Seeing that collaboration continue and evolve has been especially rewarding.
Peggy’s experience highlights the human side of regional leadership. She pointed to visiting An Achievable Dream and participating in the poverty simulation as distinctly impactful. “The Poverty Day will stick with you,” she said, reflecting on how those program days bring complex issues into sharp, personal focus. Together, their experiences underscore CIVIC’s ability to blend issues, perspectives, and people in ways that leave a lasting impression.
When asked what he hopes never changes about CIVIC, Aubrey was clear: that CIVIC remain apolitical and driven by facts and issues.” For him, leadership is grounded in principle. “Leadership is continuous and genuine,” he reflected, “It requires taking responsibility for your actions and doing the right thing when nobody’s looking.” Together, their reflections underscore what CIVIC continues to cultivate after 30 years: leaders who think regionally, act responsibly, and stay committed to the long view.